Wednesday | A five-star video clip, and note to men PS, this was sent in by a reader, who wants everyone to vote for it. Not to sound like the second grade teacher ("wot would happen if everyone sent in their thing to be voted for?" Why the blog would be nothing but...) however I thought I would post this. It's pretty clever, and I did promise. Thanks Nancy. http://clips.mylifemycard.com/view.php?film_id=11483 To our readers: how are you appreciating the reader-contributed essays? Can we please hear from some men? We have heard a lot from women about why guys are scared of them, and their feelings about this. But I would ask you to go past the common perception that guys "don't put their feelings into words." Is that true? Well, from the look of the discussion, it is. And no, to involve more male readers, we're not going to do golf.planetwaves.net. Oh, wait, I just got an IM -- that site is ready for testing! True or not, it's time, and this is the place. I'm currently putting together tomorrow's edition and would love to have your thoughts included. Please do get in touch. Remember, type as close to how this blog looks as you can. Here is the original post. http://www.planetwaves.net/contents/why_man_afraid.html Thanks! francis@planetwaves.net     e