Feb. 28 | What To Do, part one
IT'S
NOT always easy getting used to the idea that you're not totally
ineffective. Based on any analysis you like, except for one, it's
impossible that your life has no effect on the world: whether you look
at physics, social science, biology or history, individual human beings
shape and change the world. When they get together with their ideas,
resources and energy, they have an exponentially greater effect. Except
for one measure, psychology.
People who believe they are ineffective, that their lives
don't matter, or that they are helpless, almost always fall victim to
their own psychic condition.
The scenario I outlined yesterday
-- a kind of massive standoff between the forces of greed and those of
humanity -- is not necessary. It's not inevitable. And something a lot
better is possible, if we're willing to believe it is, and if enough of
us are willing to work for it. While I'm not here to give rosy
predictions about the next 10 years, we all know what people can
accomplish when they get together and take action, be it to create
something or put an end to something -- and we've got some of both to
do right now.
Speaking for the United States and much of the 'free' world, we think it's normal that
people are so devoted to being so out of it politically. In other
countries were people have it a lot harder, being aware of social
issues and politics is not an inconvenience or a luxury, it's a basic
fact of life.
Many people who do care think it's normal to live in a world
where they feel like they're the only ones who do. That can be nearly as
isolating as feeling useless or helpless. Anyone with experience
getting something done knows a) it's usually impossible without a lot
of help, and b) has a lot better chance of happening when people
cooperate.
But deep in there, the first step is getting just a little bit
past the idea that you don't matter. Or, deciding that issue is
irrelevant -- you're going to do what you can anyway. I get the sense
that in the past week or so many people have come to one of these two
realizations.
There is the kind of resignation that we're accustomed to,
that of despair, or feeling like there's no hope. Resignation can be
turned the other way, too -- it can give way to resolve. But this us
usually an entirely organic process. It's almost something that happens
on a biochemical level, or like a psychological barrier yields and an
idea we have about ourselves and the world changes.
At other times, necessity is the motivation. Something just
has to be done, so we do it, and the thought that we cannot never
occurs to us.
Over the next few days I'd like to talk about what
we actually can do to help the world situation, in meaningful ways that
fulfill one crucial requirement -- they don't set us back personally,
but rather contribute to the growth and sense of meaning we want so
much.
I made a list tonight of 'things we can do' (while getting a
long civics lesson about how the rather complex European Union
government works), and one of the things that came up on the list is we
can feel better about ourselves. While it sometimes happens that the
work we do and making ourselves busy and productive lead to feeling
better, usually we just decide to go there -- and then take action from
a place of awareness.
If you're someone with a mental habit of putting yourself down
-- a lot of us are, and this is something I've struggled with on and
off for a super long time -- it helps to keep an eye on that tendency.
While it seems a difficult habit to break, it's also something that
thrives in the dark, away from the light of awareness.
One of the first steps, and really, one of the easiest, is
giving yourself permission to honestly care. Do it with a clear
conscience, no matter what anyone else may feel, or what you think they
feel. Even if that's as far as you get, for now, because it's a really
good start.
I'll have more on this theme tomorrow. Thank you for all the really amazing mail that's come in the past few days.
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